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Hunting. Man loves to hunt. They pack up their truck with expensive gear, take 2 weeks off of work, drive hundreds of miles, set up camp in the middle of nowhere, freeze their asses off , and sit in a tree for HOURS! All for what? I know campfire Starbucks isn’t that good. The fun is in the chase, the adventure of not knowing if they’ll win the trophy game or go home empty handed. Some laws only allows hunters to leave with one in the bag. If the hunter gets his one on the first day he can’t hunt for the rest of vacation and even though he has won his prize he still feels some dissatisfaction . I’m sure the correlation is obvious here. If something is too easy to get do we really want it? Better yet is it worth having?

Women are known for talking about how they don’t want to play games. All we want is to meet a nice guy that won’t break our hearts. Tried of dating the emotionally unavailable, immature, and unreliable men that walk all over our hearts we start dating guys outside of our type. Do me a favor and think about the type of men folk described above and what it felt like. Now think of the times you dated the safe ones. Which guy did you feel more alive and entertained by? I’m going to guess it wasn’t the latter.

Homegirl and I were talking about why we keep dating the same types of guys. Here are a few of the questions we asked each other: Are we masochists, are we equally emotionally unavailable, do we not want to settle down, holy crap do we have daddy issues??? Here’s a piece of advice for my man friends. If she is in her mid to late twenties and happy being single then you may want to watch out. Especially if you’re a nice guy because chances are she’ll eat you alive. I was friends with this dude, Chasez, and I was hot to trough for him. We didn’t live in the same town so most of our friendship grew through phone calls with the occasional dinner. When we finally moved closer together and hung out more frequently I found myself not wanting him anymore. He was a great guy who adored me. Now of course there were other issues, but what it came down to was that the chase was the biggest thrill. Once it became to easy and I saw that a real future was possible, I ran. Ever since then the only guy that has kept my attention is the one that keeps my emotions in check. He gives a little then pulls back and I eat it up like candy. This is not something I’m proud of nor do I completely understand why I let it happen. I want to share this with you because I know a couple ladies that are exactly like myself. We fight fight fight for the guy that we want to be with, but emotionally he runs from us. My girls and I complain about how we’re tried of giving everything to these guys, but when it comes down to it we don’t walk away. Why hunt when we just end up shooting ourselves in the foot?